contempt

I have heard this word come up several times in the last few weeks.  The definition I found on the internet is

“the feeling that a person or a thing is beneath consideration, worthless, or deserving scorn”

I have heard it is the emotion that destroys marriages and PBS described it as the platform the republican party is using toward democrats.

I can not imagine anything worse than someone considering you worthless.  Worthless of existence, love, acceptance, understanding, empathy, patience.

I am saddened that we live in a world that condones contempt.

What happens to us that we have contempt for another human being?

What has hardened our hearts to the point that we find no value in another person, their thoughts or beliefs?

I really want to know.  I am not asking in a hypothetical sense.  I look at my little grandsons and wonder what would happen if they encountered someone who was contemptuous.  What does that do to a persons sense of self worth?

I am certain it would damage it deeply.  Does that then create contempt in them?

Are we at risk of living in a world where our self worth, self image and emotional well being are at risk?

I am going to be hopelessly optimistic.  I will cheer for you.  I will hug you if you need it.  I will praise your effort.  I will see the good in you and I will not allow you to create contempt in me.

I believe in people and I believe in you.